Cheaters

Samstag, Januar 7, 2012 - 17:36
MrJazz56:
Cheaters

hey guys,
well, here's the deal;
my girlfriend told me today that she had cheated on me with a friend of mine at some pub on Thursday.
he was an old crush she had that didn't happen because he turned out to be a dick and they shared what she said was a drunken 10 second kiss after they had been sharing their problems and what not.
and I'm in a bit of a pickle to say the least.
I still really like her deep down after being with her for almost half a year now and I really want to forgive her but I'm not sure what to do.
I know she's a good person and she didn't intend to hurt me by cheating
what should I do?
should i keep going and rebuild the trust or do I break it off with her and be a man whore?
help me please?

Kommentare for this Forum Topic

Samstag, Januar 7, 2012 - 19:37
MrJazz56:

thanks guys you helped a lot Smiling
i'm gonna keep going with her

Samstag, Januar 7, 2012 - 18:41
Skyla Christine Dawn:

I agree with Dmonheart. She wouldn't have told u if she didnt feel guilty about it and I'm sure she loves u since she told u. Talk to her about it, but don't let her go. People make mistakes but she apologized and told u about it right away.

Samstag, Januar 7, 2012 - 17:52
Dmonheart:

ok.. here's what I would do:
confront her about it and say something like I appreciate you being honest with me and I want to be honest with you; you caused me a lot of pain etc
in the end though, I would keep her.... if she didn't still love you, she wouldn't have told you about it in the first place. I think her coming to you first before you heard about some where else shows that she honestly feels bad about it, wants to take responsibility for her wrong doing, and wants to keep going in ur relationship...

hope that helped, I hope whatever choice you make its the right one in the long run ! Smiling