New Fan on the way...anyone think this is as cool an idea as I do???

New Fan on the way...anyone think this is as cool an idea as I do???

I just wanted to share with all you fans that my son is due aug. 22nd 2009 and i have talked my wife into the name Benjamin Adam! Im sure you know where i got Adam but if you are unsure of Benjamin that would be my equally favorite singer Benjamin Burnley of Breaking Benjamin...

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aw cool. lol. that's aweosme

I´ts a very nice name

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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cool name
congrats!!!

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Lauren

Congratulations on the child sir =D
Aha, sick name too.

ha, wonderful name.

ty Smiling

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congrats. Laughing out loud

vicki thank you for the positive comment and you are dead on with my reasoning behind the names

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I think it's sweet. A name does not have to reflect what the person he's names after has been through. I see it as if naming it after Adam and Benjamin is acknowledging that the music of TDG and BB means a lot to you. Not as if you want the kid to go through the same stuff, but as a positive. I find the thought sweet and one day when I get a kid, I would love to do the same thing.

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hey!! of course it would be nice to call your son Adam, I think it sounds better: Adam Benjamin, well
it will be a nice baby if his name is adam!!
bye bye

lynneashusband23
wow now that i re read what i said it sounds as if i am saying that i have grown up from that teen stage. no i haven't im still a teen eh. and i still face problems, and im still going through it. im not saying that i know everything because the more yu learn the more yu realize how ignorant yu were. and i have been learning alot. anyhow, im just saying that when i see some posts here about doing things that are reallii rediculous.. its like.. dnt yu have a brain to figure ir out that its realii stupid? but then.. i did that stuff to. and yu realii dnt notice it until its been projected in other's life. not to say that im not doing anything stupid rite now. i can bet that everyday if i think back to what i did the day before.. i would hate my self for doing sumthing stupid. yu grow each day. and i guess what yu said realii hit me, in a good way dnt worry. i guess i was comming off as a know it all and above everyone else. i just want the people doing what i used to do to know what i have come to know, and it realii is getting out of that box. and no, i do not look at the negative to everything. hehe i dnt consider myself a pessimest. like i said, i dnt like to sugercoat everything. nor do i ever want to try. true, im guessing people on this site mite hate me. but truthfully.. wait no, sorry cnt state that here. too personal. but just know that im not like this in real. i guess to get my point to be appreciated by others yu sorta do have to add atleast a little suger instead of the whole sour lemon.

xD Smiling "but yu noe, im still a kid, im still learning" ~ thts wut my teacher says. i luv her statement. it shows that no matter how old yu are, in knowledge, yur always a kid. funny how i didnt think of much of it till now, and for that ill thank you.

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omg now i remember wut yu wrote before! wow, that was no where close to offense. well not to me atleast. i agree private schools that are actually different then other schools raise kids with a different mentality, and hence they sound "posh" like. xD i just want to point out that even though it is not good to say offensive things all the time cuz that just gets people to hate you, but it still should not stop you from pointing out a fact w.o. suger coating it just to get the point out. and i have to say that yu have not offended me. either cuz i dnt get offended much, (which i do) or that yu didnt say anything hurtful. not to me yet anyhow. now if i offended yu in any way, which im guessing i did. then im sorry, ofcourse. its just that i find that some people sugercoat to get their message across and in that there is a possibility of it not getting there precisely as yu intended. which may also hurt cuz the other person mite think it to be sumthing which yu did not want.. etc. its just so much easier saying it and leaving others to comment on it. like i said my point, and if anyone said that i was being mean.. then thts not a comment i would take time to reply to eh. cuz yu gottta think of what is written, think of the other person's point of view, then write back in the same manner. if everyone's like my view my view.. then there is no point to yur view cuz other's are busy in their own..
wait.. wut..? lol sorry i swtiched topic i think.. well mainly yu didnt offend me, and if i did then well i could have meant it, but not in a totally offensive mode.. if yu get wut i mean.. ?

tOO-_._-YoUnG: haha alritey then we same age, sorry about that. ..im a bit dim..i thought i read in other posts that you were older, but i was silly to belive that lol..but yeah i say stuff, and i don't mean it too offense, it sorta just comes out but i dont mean it to, i try and say stuff as un offensive as i can, since im quite a sensitive person and shy etc. but yeah, that whole thing about the private school, i cant even remember what i put. ..but i didn't mean it badly, hey i speak posh..im from a part of england..(kinda) ..closer to france, but w.e. haha yeah anyways..just gonna end whatever it was now and i appologise if i offened you in any way Smiling

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well, let me say this...I did ask for everyones opinion on the subject so I should not have argued against your opinion (too young) but I do feel justified in the fact that you should not search for the negative simply to be different because it really speaks poorly for your character. from the sound of things you seem to have a very mature and adult like mentality but I can promise that no matter how much you feel you know(and i used to hate when ppl said this to me when i was your age) there is alot you will learn when you are older...I never believed that but it is so true...I would suggest that you not attempt to take the "other guy" stance on things all the time because you seem like a very good person and you will get alot of respect that way. (not saying agree with everything everyone says, just be true to you)

(never too late) right on you make a hell of a point...

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lynneashusband23
well i guess bad stuff happens to everyone. and yea stuff happens, ppl freak out. i mean now that i look at myself even like half a year ago i think of my self as stupid for my own behaviour. i guess its when yu step out of the teen box and realii take a look around and see how stupid yu seem to the adults.. none waht soever cool. i took the negative side cuz i think it is pointless stating sumthing already stated before. it is sort of annoying but i guess it is a form or like.. assurance for the forum maker eh.
never-too-late-
i haven;t been on for a few weeks so i totally lost who i was supposed to dislike. i read the posts. if its stupid then i look at the name and it goes into my short term memory slot. lol. and im only 15.. jeez. dnt make me sound older. my mum switched me to a private school. so when yu get out of the society i was in and into the one i am in now.. (like my private school is all ages. like even adults) yu get to see.. what reallii happens out there. and.. well i can go on about how i was realii screwed before. but then.. dude i got a future, and i wanna live it. i dnt wanna screw it up more.
and true yur point is correct. and that shows that yu actually cared enough to think about it. i mean its cool saying "nice name" other to actually give a reason. as ppl say there are always both sides to everything. and its cool getting to noe both. i had to think for the negative one my self. but there ya go. a nege and a posi. xD
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tOO-_._-YoUnG: haha i no you don't really like me from previous fourms and comments etc.. and your probs older than me and im young and etc..again, i don't mean this in offence or anything Smiling ..but what about if people look up to them as an idol?..you know like how adam has been through so much, or they are both just stunning singers and are just thee ones in someones life that they look up to. ..To name your child after them i think is a great idea cause your expressing who you are in your child. ..It doesn't nessisarily (spelling) mean that you want them to be like " emo" or whatever, its like your idols have inspired you so much that it means something to you so you want to pass it on.
anyways, im kinda ruining the point of this fourm here so gonna shup Smiling ..just felt i had to say something ha. ..but im just a kid and don't want to talk out of turn so sorry.

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well, although that may be somewhat true for some three days grace songs that is definitely not true of breaking benjamin because ben has done countless interviews stating that his songs have absolutely no meaning whatsoever...I guess if you choose to look at it that way and have to try and put negativity on something that is very positive then i will lower myself to finding a defense statement by saying that atleast adam is his middle name...Thank you for the comments so far I appreciate them all...also I would assume by you taking the negative side you fall into the category of "ppl that sumthing bad happens to and hence they turn to songs to "cure" them" If I am wrong correct me but think about it first.

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lol. well since everyone is so nice.. ill take the negative side.
hm. mos of the songs are for like.. depressed or sumthing.. yu noe? like.. its for ppl that sumthing bad happens to and hence they turn to songs to "cure" them. and naming then after such a band is like.. sort of saying that yu want the child to grow up, get screwed then turn to this and get better..
but then again yu did name after the singer's so yu cn retaliate by saying its cuz of their voices, which would be awesome. but,,
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congrats! that's an adorable name Smiling
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aww so cute.
My two favorite singers Smiling
congrats!

awesome name Smiling

awww thats so sweet! ..congrats Laughing out loud

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congrats Smiling
very nice name

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