So things with my girl have gotten pretty serious. Now I know that we have only been dating for a few months now but I have no doubt that she is the one but from time to time I'm not sure how she feels. We have both talked about being together for ever and starting a family, WEIRD to most people but I really don't care what those people think. When you find the one, make no excuses and never feel that you have to justify it....Well last night we were watching FRIENDS and the subject of kids was brought up. I was asking her if she would want to hold her kid right after they were born and she said yes and we joked about our kid yada yada yada right? Well then she said its cute when kids look like their parents and she hoped her kid looked like her and mine would look like me....then I thought she was being hesitant about talking about us in the future. And she is not a very engaging person in conversation so she doesn't look me in the eye much when she does but at the same time she was very tired, but it does not ensure my confidence when she does that. Any ways, after we chatted about it for a little I left and then she text me why I was sad. Well I wish she would have asked me that when I was there but thats not her. We were texting back and forth all morning and she made a few good points. She thinks that me talking about it, which she also said she enjoyed,feels like I'm just looking for reassurance and that it shouldn't be forced. She also said that she thinks we will be together and that it should be because it happened naturally and that we were meant to be. Which I agree with completely and know in my heart that will happen. I told her that I do see us together and left it at that, and that I am only thinking about us and the present because if things are always as great as this and we take it day by day then there wont be any need to worry about the future......

Because you can say I love you and tell some one your meant to be but you have to show them and be there for them and do whats right by you. Take care of whats best for your relationship not whats just best for you or them. If you truly love a person then you will do what is best for the two of you and your relationship