The hardest thing about telling some one you love them is the after effect. Not telling them, thats easy....you have to deal with maybe questioning your feelings or questioning the other persons feelings about you. I told my girlfriend that I loved her and she told me....she brought the subject up and I had been feeling it for the past week...now we've been together for a month and a half and I know there will be alot of doubters but I don't doubt my feelings for this girl at all. I love her with all my heart and I have never felt this way before. I have told someone else that I loved them and that was a disaster, I know what it means to not be in love and I know how I feel now and thats all that matters. I do worry about her though.....I'm not worried that she doesn't love me just that she may re-think it and try to convince her self other wise. No one said love would ever be an easy thing but I'm not going any where