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Monday, October 29, 2007 - 10:25
is there anyone who things about what the life is???
as i look at the topics i see that they are mostly nonsences... '' i love adam.. who would u date in band... adam has a doughter...bla bla...''
i think they are unnecessery topics.. while i have my own problems why do i care about the privete lives of the band. i agree with you band's music is perfect but i want to talk about the meanings of the songs. for example the song '' never too late'' .. is there anyone who thinks about suicidng?? or who is going right down the dark bottom...??? im talking about the depressions... which songs u like most and why...
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I feel like commiting suicide sometimes. I have that "lonely" feeling inside of me that won't go away, no matter how much fun I have. That's why I like this band. their lyrics describe how I feel. They're the only reason I'm not dead right now. Adam helped me realize.. I'm not alone in this world. Other people feel like I do.
But I think the other topics are neccesary to me. I like reading about the band members. They're like my idols and I love them. I just like some serious topics sometimes too.
And actually, I know the reason why every single person has the feeling inside of them. It's because they don't have God. Alot of people "try" being christians but they say it doesnt work. It will eventually. if you talk to God and pray to him, and read the Bible, you won't feel like that. I've tried it, but I still have the suicidal lonely feeling in me. I'm still working on my christianity though. I'm not giving up, because I know God is there for me, and he'll fill the empty space. You may not believe me, but I know people who used to feel like this, and now they're christians and never depressed or lonely. I hope I can be like that one day, because I hate this feeling.
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Three Days Grace is beyond amazing. Thank you guys for saving my life.
Yeah I know Piano.
It happens to me to, you just need to hang in there something good will come out of it.
You just need a hand from someone.
Piano, i emailed you.
3DG has songs that have alot mof meaning which is hard to say for most bands.....my fav. song is "gone forever"..
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Top Fav. Bands
1.Three Days Grace
2.Smile Empty Soul
3.Breaking Benjamin
4.Bullet For My Valentine
5.Skillet
to frogs
actually i dont care about thoso kind of words.. it seems like they are correct but.. ive tried so many times. i said '' dont care live life have fun forget yesterday..'' yes ok i did these but... im still me every thing is same life ignores me and finally your hopes are all gone. its easy to speak these way but the result is always emptiness
now i have a new philosophy.. i dont want any happines cuz im going to lose it again. there is no need to try for it because one day u are going to be down again...
to ' the hunter'
i didint said the band is not perfect:D read again:D i think they are perfect:DDDD
to w r 1
well i dont think we are talking about the same think. or u dont know what u are talking about... you are talking about giving up... first i need to say that i wont suicide because it is also nonsence. life is nonsence and death is also nonsence... off its getting hard to talk it here. i would like to talk on msn. directora_lupi@hotmail.com... if u add we can talk because 3DG forum is the last place where i want to talk about suicide... we are off topic.
ive asked what 3DG fans think about the songs.. meanings of songs but have a look what we are talking now...
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When Nietzsche Cries
actually, alot of people think of suicide. i lovre the band, and i agree with you that they're not perfect. but then again, who is?
Like my friend John did before he died at age 13.
He said Live life to the fullest and break all the rules.
Live everyday like its your last you only have one chance.
Sure there are hell times in life but you gotta just stick with it, you will survive threw it. I know I have.
I understand what you're saying. I may not be able to help solve someone's issues but there is always room for trying. you need to look at the positive side of things.
Now I'm not getting defensive, but you have to right to tell me that i don't know what it's like to be alone. you don't know me. I shouldn't have to explain myself but I AM alone. I have nothing. it's not something that i can explain very well because to most ppl it wouldn't make sense. but it makes sense to me. i know how i feel. But like you said there are ppl that feel like there's nothing to live for. like there is no reason to get out of bed in the morning. Well you know what? I know that those ppl are depressed and i know that it's hard, trust me i do. there are plenty of days that i feel like there's nothing. sometimes i'll sit there, holding a knife or razor, and think, "what if i just slid it across my wrist. One swipe is all it takes to end this pain and emptiness." but then i think, " that won't solve anything." i would end my life. for what? i'll just give up? i don't think so. i would be giving into the stereotype that if you are lonely or depressed, you just give up. Would you want to give all those ppl the satisfaction of being right. would you want to feed there ego even more then they already do themselves? i don't. and if you and everyone that feels lonely or depressed wants to then go ahead. that's your desicion.
nice day to you to.
to W r1
i believe that u have a very good heart but unfortunately sometimes thre are problems which nobody can help:( i know you think that u can solve it or help to solve it but... u dont know what it is to be alone .. its like the song '' i know what it is to be young but u dont know what it is to be old''.. i know what it is to be happy but u dont know what it is to be alone. wahile i say '' alone'' i dont mean that there is nobody around u. im talking about the inner lonelyness. its like a sickness which kills u slowly. u see everyone tries to help u but the problem is that u dont let anyone do this because this sickness makes u think that its too late 4 u. it makes u feel tired of living and u start to think that life is meaningless. nothing makes any sence to u. so when u find a way to rescue u dont lead it because this sickness makes u afreid of happiness. u dont wanna be happy because u are sure that u are going to lose it again so there is no need to have it over and over because u are going to lose it. and slowly u start to think why do i live why do i eat why do i sleep and other thinks and suddenly u find yourself suiciding thinking why do i suicide!!!!!!!
what if there is no solution....
its something like this. sometimes ppl who experiances the same problem see eachother but dont help eachother. they think '' why'' ... '' why'' is the question which makes u a human, which develops your life, which makes u get into depression. which kills u!!! why is the only question of philasophy..
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When Nietzsche Cries
To Piano
I understand what you are saying. I wasn't trying to imply that everyone can understand everyone else's problems. I know that unless you have gone through the same thing as that person, you can only feel sympathy, not empathy for that person. What I meant was that even if you haven't gone through some of the issues other ppl have you can still get a good idea of the problem. and if you can get a good idea, you can do your best to help them and help them deal with the issues they are dealt.
ok my firs answer is for ''neverbeclever'' i know they wan to learn about the lives of the band mambers... i agree with you on this. but we cant find it out on forum:D we should read the entreviews of band. for example every fan nows that adam was addicted and he spend 10 days in rehab centre and he wrote pain, animal i have become and other songs.. he already expalnes how he wrote it. maybe we can talk about this and we can find out more from eachother but here nobody does this!!
and ' we r1 535' this paragraph is 4 u. i dont agree with you. let me explane. i think we are alone. because all of has has different problems no metter how serious they are. because of this nobody is able to understand eachother complately. meybe they listen to you they hug you but impossible to feel the same way. actually. i feel this way and my problem is i cant even tell anyone about my problems i dont know why. i can tell it here because i dont know any of u. you are far away from me:D but the songs of three days grace really helps me. i also like the song pain but loking throuh another perspective. it feels like god is talking to me. actually i have no religion but i believe in a god who i call '' Joe with cap''. it feels like jo is talking to me. thats why i love this song.
also my favorite is never too late. my friend suicided and it was horrible. so i was so affected by this and sometimes i also think suicidng. but then i listen to this song and.. i know its stupid but i feel like adam is directly talking to me and want me to live. feels like there is some one who wants me to live. and a voice whicjh says that '' maybe maybe will turn around round cuz its not too late...'' and i tell myself '' hay girl just give one more chance to life'' ... it goes this way. if im still alive 3DG is a very big metter of this...
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When Nietzsche Cries
Very interesting topic. I really enjoy learning about the guys in the band because they're like a freakin' idol to me. I'm interested in the band and the people in it more than just a part time thing.
But discussing the meanings of songs it very fun.
thats what never too late is about right .. that you don't have to say you're nothing because it's never too late to feel better/ do something about it . sunshine after rain etc..
btw i can understand why ppl want to know more about the private lives of the bandmates because they've made the songs . It's not that you just wake up and think ' let's write a song like that'
ppl like to know what were the thoughts behind the songs 
(but things like 'what haircut looks better' is indeed unnecessary, but i don't think it's ' wrong' 
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THANK YOU! Finally someone who gets me. I've been thinking about the same thing. I love the song "pain" cuz I love helping ppl. All i wanna do is help show them the way and let them know that they mean something. I hate it when ppl say that they are nothing (even thought sometimes i am one of those ppl). they need to know that they aren't alone. there are ppl all around the world who has it rough and deal with the same things that they are going through.
So to all the ppl out there who feel like they are alone and nobody cares about them. IT'S NOT TRUE. you're not alone.
sorry but i have to go. i'll finish later.